How to Give a Great Wedding Toast (And How to Avoid the Train Wreck)
Posted On April 25, 2022 BY Dean Brenner
(Author’s Note: It’s that time of year again… wedding season! And many weddings are once again happening live and in-person… what a gift! This also means lots of people are getting ready to give wedding toasts, a muscle we may not have stretched in a while for all the obvious pandemic-related reasons. So I decided this […]
Speaking Tips: Think “Conversation,” not “Presentation”
Posted On April 22, 2022 BY Dean Brenner
One of the questions I get asked all the time is, “How can I be less nervous when I stand up to present?” Confidence in public speaking continues to be a problem for lots of people. The spotlight is fully on you, everyone is listening, and we all want to do well. It is not […]
Presentation Tips: Embracing the Empty Spaces
Posted On April 20, 2022 BY Dean Brenner
“Music is the space between the notes.” ~Claude DeBussy In many workshops, we see two parallel fears come up over and over. People fear silence when they’re speaking. Silence makes them uncomfortable. Therefore, they often fill the silence with more sound — extra words and non-words (we call them “verbal pauses’). And at the same time, people fear […]
The Energy Drain of Leadership
Posted On April 18, 2022 BY Dean Brenner
I heard from a business leader last Friday, someone I have done some business with, but who is also a friend. And what started as a quick “hey, how are you” conversation, turned into an hour-long therapy session of venting and asking for advice… in both directions. I was thinking about this conversation for the […]
Dear Latimer: More Answers to Your Questions
Posted On April 15, 2022 BY Dean Brenner
Hello friends! We are continuing our latest blog tradition of fielding your questions about effective communication. You can send us the questions any way you want… via phone, email or the “Dear Latimer” box on the right side of most pages on our site. When we get a question we will always answer directly back […]
Wide-Angle Vs. Zoom: What’s the Right Lens for Your Communication?
Posted On April 13, 2022 BY Dean Brenner
I love to use metaphors when I teach. And this is one of my favorites. The best photographers carry around a camera bag, and in that camera bag they carry many different kind of lenses. Different situations call for use of a different lens: lighting, background, desired shot, timing and other variables can drive the […]
Your Actions Are Contagious
Posted On April 11, 2022 BY Dean Brenner
We spend a lot of our time in workshops, on this blog, and in all our conversations with our clients, discussing the importance of good communication skills. We always talk about the power of listening, of being prepared, of having goals and talking points and plans… all of it matters. When you take a good […]
Is Communication a “Soft Skill”?
Posted On April 10, 2022 BY Jacob Ward
Communication is often labeled a “soft skill.” Implying it is secondary behind the dominant “hard skills” which are more easily measurable like engineering, coding, physics. At LatimerNext, we disagree! We think of communication differently. Without communication skills, even if you’re the best at what you do, you will find it hard to advance and grow […]
No One Leads All the Time: Seven Characteristics of Good Followership
Posted On April 8, 2022 BY Dean Brenner
At The Latimer Group, we often say, “no one leads all the time.” And today, we would like to dig into that a little bit more. Take a look at the image above. The yellow figure is usually the one that gets all the attention, much of the acclaim when things are going well. Many of […]
When We Communicate Well, We Are Empowered
Posted On April 6, 2022 BY Dean Brenner
My colleagues and I talk and teach all the time about the power of strong communication skills. When we communicate effectively, The Latimer Group always says, we drive results. We get approvals. We connect with the people around us. So many good things happen when we can communicate well. But let’s add to that long […]