My colleagues and I spend just as much time changing the way people think about communication as we do anything else. Better communication is not about new tips or tricks (a line I hear in workshops a lot… “I am looking forward to getting some new tips.” Wow, does that drive me nuts.) Better communication is about a lot more than “tips.” It is about three foundational things: powerful mindsets, tools sets and skill sets. And the mindsets are the most foundational of the three.
Here is a classic example of a communication mistake that we see all the time. Many of us need approval for things in the workplace. And in an attempt to get that approval, we will often see people put together a message, in the form of a presentation to a group or talking points for their manager or leader, that jumps immediately to selling that solution to the group or the manager. We have seen this many times… and in some cases, the presentation of the recommended solution is very well done.
But even if that message was well planned, constructed and delivered, we often see it fail. Why? Because the presenter’s mindset was flawed from the start. They had failed to go to the root cause of the issue, and ask themselves the most fundamental question… Does my audience SEE THE PROBLEM the way I do? Before you even begin planning your discussion and sale of the solution, first ask yourself how your audience views the problem. Do you agree on that? Do you both see the problem the same way with the same level of urgency? Because if you don’t, then the chances that you will agree on the solution, or that a solution is even required, are remote at best.
Ask yourself the MOST fundamental questions at the outset of your preparation. Because great communication is most often about getting to the heart of the issue, and really understanding the root cause of the situation in front of you. Ask yourself the correct questions, work hard to really understand the situation, and the chances that your message will resonate go up dramatically.
And you won’t even need any new tips or tricks.
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