Let’s Reframe “Right vs Wrong”
Posted On June 2, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
I recently saw a post on Instagram from a good friend, who also happens to be a highly effective child psychologist and successful author. Her name is Katie Hurley, and she posted the following: “When we replace ‘what’s wrong with you?’ with ‘what have you been through?’ we meet each other with empathy and compassion.” […]
Let’s Stop Calling Communication a “Soft Skill”
Posted On May 28, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
(We recently had a conversation with a good friend of The Latimer Group, who said something really powerful to us. Our friend shared that her firm no longer calls communication a “soft skill.” Instead, they refer to communication as a “power skill.” We LOVE that, and it caused me to write this post, which has […]
Remember the Lessons We Teach Our Kids
Posted On May 24, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
I am always amazed at how often there is a crossover between the things my wife and I speak with our kids about, and the conversations that come up in my work with clients. The context and the vocabulary is usually pretty different. But the essence of the discussions are usually the same. So, just […]
What Kind of Teammate Are You?
Posted On May 14, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
One of the themes that comes up in all of our leadership communication workshops is the concept of “how to be a good teammate.” People always seem interested in the steps towards being a better leader and a better teammate. People always seem to want to hear “first do this… then do this… then do this…” People […]
Brevity, According to Winston Churchill
Posted On April 30, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
My colleagues and I speak and write all the time about the importance of getting to the point. We talk about the importance of respecting your audience’s time, managing their attention span, and how our fast-paced 21st century world makes this skill a critical one. It turns out that a pretty famous guy, Winston Churchill, […]
5 Ways Poor Communication Can Hurt Your Organization
Posted On April 26, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
We all aspire to be better communicators. We all know that communicating well will help us accomplish our goals, drive good outcomes, and add value to our colleagues and customers, and generate business. But while we all may agree on the benefits of good communication, we generally think about poor communication as a momentary setback. […]
What Makes Your Garden Grow?
Posted On April 23, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
I love to garden. Anyone who regularly reads this blog knows that. I write about it all the time. Its relaxing, gets me outside breathing the fresh air, and there is a distinct sense of satisfaction that comes from creating something and watching it grow. I also love the rhythm of the seasons with gardening. […]
Drowning is a Silent Death
Posted On April 9, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
One of the strongest and most enduring myths about drowning is that it is loud. Thank you, Hollywood…. Drowning is often incorrectly depicted with lots of splashing and screaming for help. But in reality, it doesn’t happen that way. Not even close. Drowning, in fact, almost always happens completely silently. The silence is caused because the […]
The Foundation of Strong Relationships
Posted On March 31, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
Relationships matter. A lot. In all aspects of our lives. Relationships are the connective tissue, and create the fabric of our existence. And considering the journey all of us have been on over the last 12 months, I have been thinking a lot lately about relationships. In our work lives, we have to do a […]
Practicing What You Preach in the Workplace
Posted On March 17, 2021 BY Dean Brenner
We get inquiries all the time from managers, directors and organizational leaders about a need for communication training for their teams. And in nearly every conversation, the leader is very clear about the needs and weaknesses of his or her team. Then, when we actually conduct the training, and once the participants get comfortable enough to speak […]